> When I do, I usually go up to them, explain that my father died, they look like him, and ask if I can have a hug. It's not him, and I always wind up crying,

> When I do, I usually go up to them, explain that my father died, they look like him, and ask if I can have a hug. It's not him, and I always wind up crying, but it helps me. I don't think I've ever heard anything like this before. Have you ever gotten a bad reaction from someone? Or do they always oblige?