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back when okcupid was not part of match.com, and it was "indy" and had kinda nerdy harvard founders, they published a blog including reports on statistics from
by fsckboy 2y ago
back when okcupid was not part of match.com, and it was "indy" and had kinda nerdy harvard founders, they published a blog including reports on statistics from users of their site.
The most "astonishing/counterintuitive" detail was that women were essentially more concerned or attracted to good looks than men were. If you rate people's attractiveness on how much other people like their look, you can then look at how much people are interested in people "out of their league", so to speak. And women showed a much greater tendency to flock toward the most good looking men, men who were "numerically" out of their reach (because too many women wanted too few men)
This is not the same thing as preferring "masculinity" which this study concerns itself with, but it is similar. There are masculine traits you can fake or modify, like "abs" and there are masculine traits that are more innate, like shape of your face/jaw. Presumably both men and women are innately more aware of "underlying" looks. Part of what this article concerns itself with are "mutable" characteristics that people are over focusing on.
it's just interesting to learn that women care about looks more than men do, at least on a "dating menu"; irl could be totally different.
- Tadpole9181 2y agoI think it's fair to say you can't generalize data from a specific demographic of women on a single platform with a shared goal that biased their opinions on relationships.
- nh23423fefe 2y agowhy is it fair to express formless skepticism? what's wrong with the data or methodology?
- Tadpole9181 2y agoBecause the women on that service at the time would be predominantly white, young, above lower class, straight women actively looking for a partner that get to select from a pool that includes idealized men out of their league using a digital medium with limited information and inherent bias and, for whatever reason, are not able to find partners in normal life? It's pretty obvious that is not reflective of "all women".