When I was in high school my mother bought me some ridiculously expensive futon. One of the western ones which are largely just layers of cotton with a thin lay

When I was in high school my mother bought me some ridiculously expensive futon. One of the western ones which are largely just layers of cotton with a thin layer of pillowing on top. I had other issues sleeping at that time, but comfort was never one of them. And later on, when it became her guest bedroom, visiting home would often relieve my pain in a couple nights of sleep. Her elderly aunt came to visit, and my mother had the mattress "upgraded" with a 6 inch foam \ pillow topper. I cant sleep on it. It causes me physical pain and distress. Eventually she replaced the mattress too, and now its just a ridiculously thick piece of foam and pillow. My spine relaxes to some kind of crazy bend when I am on it. I wake up feeling like I spent all night in a boxing match.