The only source of this pain is procreation. The father grieves the loss of his child, which he created. The child would have died after him anyway, is it okay

The only source of this pain is procreation. The father grieves the loss of his child, which he created. The child would have died after him anyway, is it okay then? When he doesn't see? I am not dismissing his feelings, just want to state that we all create this pain ourselves. It's time to break the cycle