I did not interpret your post as diminishing anyone. The main point I wanted to share is that loss has a commonality in it always precedes pain and must be dea

I did not interpret your post as diminishing anyone. The main point I wanted to share is that loss has a commonality in it always precedes pain and must be dealt with similarly. Comparing its form was never my intent nor do I hold there is any fundamental difference between them. That's just my opinion though.