maybe you told someone you were going to be some place else maybe you were with your other family and this unwarranted disclosure revealed that to a scorned sp

maybe you told someone you were going to be some place else maybe you were with your other family and this unwarranted disclosure revealed that to a scorned spouse and friend group that are always looking for holes in the story 40 years later not criminal issues, not an FBI problem, and yet can alter your private life