I am a dev who took a remote job with the US gov a few years ago. My options are: - Tear up my life in my hometown and relocate my family closer to an office

I am a dev who took a remote job with the US gov a few years ago. My options are: - Tear up my life in my hometown and relocate my family closer to an office so I can go there and do zoom calls - Take this deal I struggled with this, and ultimately took the deal. I know it might be a scam. But at this point I know I will eventually be laid off for refusing to relocate. Neither option is good, and making this choice was one of the most stressful experiences of my life.