The phrases here are for use specifically when people aren't being nice or kind. If someone is being rude to me, the words they use shouldn't be excessively ha

The phrases here are for use specifically when people aren't being nice or kind. If someone is being rude to me, the words they use shouldn't be excessively harsh, but I don't want the language being used to increase the risk of my misinterpreting what is really being said. If you can trust that someone will be direct with you whenever you're annoying them, it means that you don't have to spend time/effort trying to divine some hidden or subtle meaning in every normal/non-confrontational communication they send your way.