> not always for the better Things happen and you adapt to survive it. And survival mode isn't made to make you happy, to become more generous or to expect mor

> not always for the better Things happen and you adapt to survive it. And survival mode isn't made to make you happy, to become more generous or to expect more loyalty. And once your worldview changes for a pessimistic one, it'll taint everything around you (especially the new interactions with people) Yes, some people change to be better: and that means (and I say it painfully) that many of them were the ones that caused unnecessary pain in others. Some reference: https://www.hss.edu/conditions_emotional-impact-pain-experience.asp https://www.hss.edu/conditions_emotional-impact-pain-experie... https://www.researchgate.net/publication/341577702_Lacan_on_Trauma_and_Causality_A_Psychoanalytic_Critique_of_Post-Traumatic_StressGrowth https://www.researchgate.net/publication/341577702_Lacan_on_... https://europepmc.org/article/med/33126037 https://europepmc.org/article/med/33126037