It's critically important to note that whilst some people have loving families and strong relationships, many don't. Along with all else, this generally makes

It's critically important to note that whilst some people have loving families and strong relationships, many don't. Along with all else, this generally makes dealing with loss both harder (fewer support options) and increasingly conflicted (grief but also often some measure of relief). Not to mention the awkwardness of customary expressions of grief or compassion, whether rituals or specific words and phrases. I'm sorry for what you've gone through but appreciate your sharing it.