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> I think one thing I worry about is my daughter possibly not growing up with a mother. Like how that will affect her. Don't worry about that! My daughter lost
by tasuki 2y ago
> I think one thing I worry about is my daughter possibly not growing up with a mother. Like how that will affect her.
Don't worry about that! My daughter lost her mother when she was 1.5 years old. It's important to have a sensible female role model. A grandma or an aunt will do just fine.
Please do take good care of yourself!
- dottjt 2y agoThat's part of the issue, there is no one like that unless if I were to remarry.
- tasuki 2y agoTough, then. Hang in there! When my partner died, I read up a bit about the problems children face when being raised by a single father. By far the biggest problem was the father's alcoholism. So I decided not to become an alcoholic (a prospect which actually looked rather enticing at a certain point in time). Also I try to be gentle with myself: it's ok to mess up. Again, hang in there and best of luck to you and your family!