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> The worst case scenario is not being delayed - it's being falsely accused. Being falsely accused is just one form of being delayed. The kind where it takes l

> The worst case scenario is not being delayed - it's being falsely accused. Being falsely accused is just one form of being delayed. The kind where it takes longer to clear it up. > Your bags are misplaced or stolen. Does worrying help with this? Does it make it less likely for it to happen? > You can't take your water bottle so now you have to buy another for 10x the price. Yes. That is how it is. Does worrying help with this? > Your passport was accidentally torn so you now have to explain that to a skeptical border police officer. Border guards see torn passports all the time. > our flight is cancelled and you must now rush to the only hotel to book a room before they sell out I don't know where you are flying where there is only one hotel. Is this a real worry or are we just catastrophising here?

michaelgburton 2y ago
You sound like you've never had an issue, and hey, congrats, but let's not pretend that there aren't plenty of horror stories and legitimate reasons to worry. And suppressing legitimate worry is a bad habit, particularly for folks who don't have white, male, and several other "default" identity markers in their profile.
- krisoft 2y ago
  > You sound like you've never had an issue I got plenty. My luggage got lost more than I can count. Missed connecting flights due to delays. Had a flight take of with four hour of delay to then ingest a bird in the engine on climbout so we had to land back imediately with a smoke filled cabin. Got selected for extra screening plenty of times, had been asked to go to the security office to answer extra questions about my luggage. Had my share of flight cancelations too. The most serious issue was perhaps when I got waylaid for a few weeks because an airline didn’t like the stamps on my imigration paperwork. According to my imigration lawyer the airline was in the wrong and misunderstanding the law, but what can you do? We got it sorted with the embassy as soon as we could and I was on my way. Thing is that worrying would not have helped with any of these. Simply not the right answer.

michaelgburton 2y ago

You sound like you've never had an issue, and hey, congrats, but let's not pretend that there aren't plenty of horror stories and legitimate reasons to worry. And suppressing legitimate worry is a bad habit, particularly for folks who don't have white, male, and several other "default" identity markers in their profile.

krisoft 2y ago
> You sound like you've never had an issue I got plenty. My luggage got lost more than I can count. Missed connecting flights due to delays. Had a flight take of with four hour of delay to then ingest a bird in the engine on climbout so we had to land back imediately with a smoke filled cabin. Got selected for extra screening plenty of times, had been asked to go to the security office to answer extra questions about my luggage. Had my share of flight cancelations too. The most serious issue was perhaps when I got waylaid for a few weeks because an airline didn’t like the stamps on my imigration paperwork. According to my imigration lawyer the airline was in the wrong and misunderstanding the law, but what can you do? We got it sorted with the embassy as soon as we could and I was on my way. Thing is that worrying would not have helped with any of these. Simply not the right answer.