> Swearing to hate my wife’s [numerous, and often for trivial reasons] enemies has made me a better, more rounded person. Not only does it give me a benchmark f

> Swearing to hate my wife’s [numerous, and often for trivial reasons] enemies has made me a better, more rounded person. Not only does it give me a benchmark for measuring my loyalty to her, but it’s made me more resolute in my own beliefs. Because all the spiting and snubbing of her foes has shown me how much colder I could be to the people I already didn’t like. Nice that he believes(?) it worked out well for him. But I've know people who married enemy-collecting spouses - and that usually wasn't so happy. Plus, if the marriage hits a rocky patch, be ready for a really ugly divorce.