> He wants a wife that will be both attractive, loving, AND pulling in a $500k+ salary. And if she has all of that, why would she date “down”? She can pick any

> He wants a wife that will be both attractive, loving, AND pulling in a $500k+ salary. And if she has all of that, why would she date “down”? She can pick anyone she wants. I don’t know anything about the parent commenter. He said he was “unattractive” and I assume lacks self confidence. I’m in no way trying to criticize him. And if he were born “poor” (again his words), he probably still comes across as someone who has “imposters syndrome”. Women can smell someone who lacks self confidence a mile away.