All of this digital ink spilled when the simple answer is: just stop doing it. Clearly other people don't value your kin work/emotional labor/<insert next neolo

All of this digital ink spilled when the simple answer is: just stop doing it. Clearly other people don't value your kin work/emotional labor/<insert next neologism>, so either 1) stop doing it, or 2) accept that it won't be valued and carry on. Eventually someone else may pick up the slack if they realize the did, in fact, value it. But can we please just stop with the martyrdom? I'm reminded of the serenity prayer: "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, and Wisdom to know the difference."