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You are going to let him choose his own hairstyle.
by 11101010001100 2y ago
You are going to let him choose his own hairstyle.
- s1artibartfast 2y agoToddlers don't have that level of agency.
- robocat 2y agoI would say that Toddlers are mostly not given agency. Toddlers want things and they don't want other things. Their parents don't permit much agency, because. I'm probably agreeing with you but I wasn't sure of your implication.
- s1artibartfast 2y agoI guess what I'm saying is that a 3 year old can sometimes pick out their clothes (sometimes they will hate the consequences). They can't really commit to long term decisions about what hairstyle they will want to live with for months, or manage the upkeep of the style they pick.
- red_admiral 2y agoWith apologies for wading into culture war topics - there are three year olds who will absolutely scream their head off at someone trying to get them to wear a dress because "I'm not a girl!!!"
- WillPostForFood 2y agoToddlers are 1-3 years old. Huge difference in agency between a 1 year old and a 3 year old. 1 year old can't dress themselves let alone make choices about dress.
- thinkingtoilet 2y agoYes. I will ask my 2 year old what hair styles he likes.
- barbecue_sauce 2y agoYou could show them pictures.