I'm in the same boat as OP. I used to run my own DIY router setup for about a decade until I realized it wasn't adding much value anymore. Anything that needs

I'm in the same boat as OP. I used to run my own DIY router setup for about a decade until I realized it wasn't adding much value anymore. Anything that needs to be visible publicly I just throw on a VM in the cloud these days. Keeps my home network "normie proof" and calm. Anyone visiting can find the modem, locate the password and get online without forcing a 45 minute IT change order circus in my own home.