> "the problem isn't me, the problem is other people" is exceedingly harmful. I can still work with it though. I recognize that I can't fix their flaws and the

> "the problem isn't me, the problem is other people" is exceedingly harmful. I can still work with it though. I recognize that I can't fix their flaws and the power I have is to adapt. Recognizing flaws in others was gateway thinking for me. It lead to me seeking and finding flaw-groups that I'm a member of. That led to me seeking reasonable causes for mass flaws. And that led me to a small group of causes. They center around individual capacity (everyone is doing ~the best they can) and reactions to feelings of helplessness (the other end of a bad behavior chain). FF to now. I'm considering a unified flaw that seems to hobble every group eventually. No one anywhere wants to clean their own house Thank you and I hope you enjoyed this tour.