You are not just your ADHD. It sounds to me you just have a name for the weight you've been unknowingly fighting your whole life. I don't think any of that ot

You are not just your ADHD. It sounds to me you just have a name for the weight you've been unknowingly fighting your whole life. I don't think any of that other stuff is true, either. Your life with ADHD gave you a perspective others don't get which likely informed and encouraged those assessments, but that doesn't make them wrong. Lot's of people live great live swith untreated ADHD. And it looks like you have to, you just didn't know that's what you were doing.