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Blaming yourself for things that aren't your fault is also a sign of depression, not productive, and doesn't lead to solutions to the problem at hand. I think w
by kerkeslager 2y ago
Blaming yourself for things that aren't your fault is also a sign of depression, not productive, and doesn't lead to solutions to the problem at hand. I think we probably agree that blame just isn't the ideal way to approach problems and the end goal would be to not include blame in the thought process at all. But for someone who is blaming themselves for everything, placing blame appropriately can be a step toward rebuilding some self-esteem.
- baq 2y agodon't confuse blaming with introspection. you have to accept you're responsible for yourself to do that properly first, though.
- kerkeslager 2y agoBlame is certainly going to be part of the introspective process if you've ever experienced any trauma caused by anyone else.