I hope I didnt come off as flippant or discounting your experience. I just more meant that its likely due to the differences that led you both to where you were

I hope I didnt come off as flippant or discounting your experience. I just more meant that its likely due to the differences that led you both to where you were, that the feeling is mutual. And that neither of you would be "wrong" for potentially feeling that way. Just different streams I suppose :)