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It seems clear in all your replies here that you see ‘alpha’ as a synonym for ‘leader’, and as a somewhat relative term (like, my boss is an alpha to me, and a

by jrmg 2y ago

It seems clear in all your replies here that you see ‘alpha’ as a synonym for ‘leader’, and as a somewhat relative term (like, my boss is an alpha to me, and a beta to their boss). Given your definition, of course it’s obvious that it apples to many facets of human society. Leaders and followers are all around us. But in popular discourse there’s also a sense of ‘alphas’ getting into their position by violence or assholery that I think your definition is missing. Even in scientific discourse, there is the idea that ‘alphas’ must gain their position by dominance - not by other methods (prestige, age, etc). People use words in different ways, so in a way your definition is as good as any other, but (as with anything language related) you can’t really insist on it if others think it means something different and you want to have reasonable conversations with them (ironically, insisting on your definition seems like an attempt to assert dominance). Edit: removed some snark, sorry. But I’ll also add: the article uses the scientific usage I mentioned above: wild real wolf pack ‘leaders’ aren’t ‘alphas’ because they don’t maintain their position by dominating the other wolves.

ninetyninenine 2y ago
The claim that "alpha" is defined as requiring violence or assholery is incorrect, and this is backed by scientific studies, dictionary definitions, and leadership psychology research. Here’s why: 1. Official Dictionary Definitions Oxford English Dictionary (OED): Alpha (in social contexts): "A person who assumes a dominant role in a particular group, especially one who is respected or influential." Oxford English Dictionary - Alpha Definition Merriam-Webster Dictionary: Alpha (as in 'Alpha Male/Female'): "The most dominant, powerful, or assertive person in a particular group." Merriam-Webster - Alpha Definition Nowhere in these definitions does it state that an alpha must use violence or aggression to gain dominance. 2. Scientific Studies on Leadership & Alpha Behavior Study: Dominance Hierarchies in Social Animals Dugatkin, L. A. (1997). "Winner and Loser Effects and the Structure of Dominance Hierarchies." Behavioral Ecology, 8(5), 583-587. "Dominance hierarchies in animal and human groups are often established through social signaling, resource control, and cooperation rather than brute force." Dugatkin, 1997 Study: Leadership Without Aggression in the Animal Kingdom Smith, J. E. et al. (2016). "Obligate Sociality Without Cooperation: Insights From Other Taxa." Behavioral Ecology, 27(1), 1-14. "Alphas are often those who exhibit superior social intelligence, cooperation, and decision-making ability rather than reliance on aggressive behaviors." Smith et al., 2016 These studies explicitly state that alphas do NOT require violence to gain or maintain their status. 3. Leadership Psychology: Alphas Lead Without Coercion Goleman, D. (1995). "Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ." Bantam Books. "True leaders, or ‘alphas’ in human social dynamics, are those who possess high emotional intelligence, resilience, and ability to influence without coercion." Goleman, 1995 Bass, B. M. (1990). "From Transactional to Transformational Leadership: Learning to Share the Vision." Organizational Dynamics, 18(3), 19-31. "Successful leadership is based on vision, respect, and strategy. Coercion and force are indicative of weak leadership rather than true dominance." Bass, 1990 These sources define "alpha" as a leader who influences others positively, not through aggression. 4. Debunking the Claim That "Alpha" = Violence L. David Mech (1999). "Alpha Status, Dominance, and Division of Labor in Wolf Packs." "The term 'alpha' is often misunderstood. In both animals and humans, successful leadership is based on intelligence, decision-making ability, and social bonding—not brute force." Mech, 1999 This refutes the claim that alpha = inherently violent. Final Conclusion: The Definition of "Alpha" Does NOT Require Violence Dictionaries define "alpha" as dominance through leadership, not necessarily aggression. Scientific studies show that dominance in social animals is often achieved through cooperation and intelligence. Leadership psychology research confirms that true human "alphas" lead through respect and influence, not assholery. The idea that "alpha" = "violent dictator" is a pop culture myth, not backed by science or formal definitions.
- oguz-ismail 2y ago
  Except all living things are inherently violent and knowing when to apply what amount of violence is part of being socially intelligent.
  - ninetyninenine 2y ago
    Violence is an effective strategy. One of many. It's not stable but it has been used successfully in human history. The thing is you can't have a society that's constantly violent all the time forever and ever. Those tend to self select via natural selection. You can have societies be temporarily violent like how Americans slaughtered and killed Native Americans and took over the continent. The formation of the USA comes from this type of effective violence. Who would be the alphas in this case? the native americans? Or the ones that invaded? I know I'm a bit on the nose here, but this is just reality.
    - _Tev 2y ago
      You still seem to confuse concepts of dominance and leadership, similarly how your opponents in the debate confuse dominance and violence. But I would agree with them that leadership does not require dominance.
  - oezi 2y ago
    Citation needed. Such a vast generalization seems obviously false. I don't even think the concept of violence makes sense when the being causing it has sufficient cognition.
    - pixl97 2y ago
      Strange take. Violence is like a key on a piano. You were born with it. You can choose not to play that note, but it is always there, it is never not there. You can choose to play great melodies without the violence note. You can choose to play melodies with the violence note. You can be forced in a corner and have no option but to hammer the violence key until the strings scream.
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glenstein 2y ago
>you see ‘alpha’ as a synonym for ‘leader’ I mean that's all true enough, but their point, at least narrowly read as a general observation about animals, stands. There are ample examples in nature of dominance hierarchies, even if wolves aren't one of them. Of course, as you note, looking to these examples as a basis for a personal ethos for tough guy psychology is error riddled in so many ways you could write a book unpacking it all. (E.g. why choose other animals remote from the lineage of apes to which we belong, why for that matter not just study humans in the first place, why hitch any ethos to what happens in nature, why not look at what it says about people who seem to need to indulge in this search, etc.) It's good to show that this argument fails on its own terms with its own chosen example, but getting into that kind of back and forth risks implicitly agreeing that it would be right to think that way, should such an example be found in nature. And those examples do exist in nature even if not necessarily with wolves. But as you noted that doesn't have anything to do with better or worse, right or wrong, and is completely lacking in self-awareness about the actual psychological dynamics that causes people to need these kinds of narratives.

by jrmg 2y ago

ninetyninenine 2y ago

The claim that "alpha" is defined as requiring violence or assholery is incorrect, and this is backed by scientific studies, dictionary definitions, and leadership psychology research. Here’s why: 1. Official Dictionary Definitions Oxford English Dictionary (OED): Alpha (in social contexts): "A person who assumes a dominant role in a particular group, especially one who is respected or influential." Oxford English Dictionary - Alpha Definition Merriam-Webster Dictionary: Alpha (as in 'Alpha Male/Female'): "The most dominant, powerful, or assertive person in a particular group." Merriam-Webster - Alpha Definition Nowhere in these definitions does it state that an alpha must use violence or aggression to gain dominance. 2. Scientific Studies on Leadership & Alpha Behavior Study: Dominance Hierarchies in Social Animals Dugatkin, L. A. (1997). "Winner and Loser Effects and the Structure of Dominance Hierarchies." Behavioral Ecology, 8(5), 583-587. "Dominance hierarchies in animal and human groups are often established through social signaling, resource control, and cooperation rather than brute force." Dugatkin, 1997 Study: Leadership Without Aggression in the Animal Kingdom Smith, J. E. et al. (2016). "Obligate Sociality Without Cooperation: Insights From Other Taxa." Behavioral Ecology, 27(1), 1-14. "Alphas are often those who exhibit superior social intelligence, cooperation, and decision-making ability rather than reliance on aggressive behaviors." Smith et al., 2016 These studies explicitly state that alphas do NOT require violence to gain or maintain their status. 3. Leadership Psychology: Alphas Lead Without Coercion Goleman, D. (1995). "Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ." Bantam Books. "True leaders, or ‘alphas’ in human social dynamics, are those who possess high emotional intelligence, resilience, and ability to influence without coercion." Goleman, 1995 Bass, B. M. (1990). "From Transactional to Transformational Leadership: Learning to Share the Vision." Organizational Dynamics, 18(3), 19-31. "Successful leadership is based on vision, respect, and strategy. Coercion and force are indicative of weak leadership rather than true dominance." Bass, 1990 These sources define "alpha" as a leader who influences others positively, not through aggression. 4. Debunking the Claim That "Alpha" = Violence L. David Mech (1999). "Alpha Status, Dominance, and Division of Labor in Wolf Packs." "The term 'alpha' is often misunderstood. In both animals and humans, successful leadership is based on intelligence, decision-making ability, and social bonding—not brute force." Mech, 1999 This refutes the claim that alpha = inherently violent. Final Conclusion: The Definition of "Alpha" Does NOT Require Violence Dictionaries define "alpha" as dominance through leadership, not necessarily aggression. Scientific studies show that dominance in social animals is often achieved through cooperation and intelligence. Leadership psychology research confirms that true human "alphas" lead through respect and influence, not assholery. The idea that "alpha" = "violent dictator" is a pop culture myth, not backed by science or formal definitions.

oguz-ismail 2y ago
Except all living things are inherently violent and knowing when to apply what amount of violence is part of being socially intelligent.
- ninetyninenine 2y ago
  Violence is an effective strategy. One of many. It's not stable but it has been used successfully in human history. The thing is you can't have a society that's constantly violent all the time forever and ever. Those tend to self select via natural selection. You can have societies be temporarily violent like how Americans slaughtered and killed Native Americans and took over the continent. The formation of the USA comes from this type of effective violence. Who would be the alphas in this case? the native americans? Or the ones that invaded? I know I'm a bit on the nose here, but this is just reality.
  - _Tev 2y ago
    You still seem to confuse concepts of dominance and leadership, similarly how your opponents in the debate confuse dominance and violence. But I would agree with them that leadership does not require dominance.
- oezi 2y ago
  Citation needed. Such a vast generalization seems obviously false. I don't even think the concept of violence makes sense when the being causing it has sufficient cognition.
  - pixl97 2y ago
    Strange take. Violence is like a key on a piano. You were born with it. You can choose not to play that note, but it is always there, it is never not there. You can choose to play great melodies without the violence note. You can choose to play melodies with the violence note. You can be forced in a corner and have no option but to hammer the violence key until the strings scream.
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glenstein 2y ago

>you see ‘alpha’ as a synonym for ‘leader’ I mean that's all true enough, but their point, at least narrowly read as a general observation about animals, stands. There are ample examples in nature of dominance hierarchies, even if wolves aren't one of them. Of course, as you note, looking to these examples as a basis for a personal ethos for tough guy psychology is error riddled in so many ways you could write a book unpacking it all. (E.g. why choose other animals remote from the lineage of apes to which we belong, why for that matter not just study humans in the first place, why hitch any ethos to what happens in nature, why not look at what it says about people who seem to need to indulge in this search, etc.) It's good to show that this argument fails on its own terms with its own chosen example, but getting into that kind of back and forth risks implicitly agreeing that it would be right to think that way, should such an example be found in nature. And those examples do exist in nature even if not necessarily with wolves. But as you noted that doesn't have anything to do with better or worse, right or wrong, and is completely lacking in self-awareness about the actual psychological dynamics that causes people to need these kinds of narratives.