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Numbers 8 and 14 resonated with me. I worked with people who thought so highly of themselves and with those who actively undermined me. For the first I learned
by rawgabbit 2y ago
Numbers 8 and 14 resonated with me. I worked with people who thought so highly of themselves and with those who actively undermined me. For the first I learned to let them rant and I might ask a clarification but after their lengthy polemic I make it a point to say I disagree. Albeit in a monotone non confrontational voice as possible. For the later, I can only pray to keep my composure as the ridiculousness of their attacks is an affront to logic, civility, and basic decency. I also remind myself there is a reason why this person was hired and I will only be wasting my health trying to fight the powers that be. I can only hope to avoid being collateral damage as their behavior will eventually cause their career to self destruct.
- javaunsafe2019 2y agoSounds like you are thinking of yourselves highly as well. Early in my career as a tech lead I had some junior with your mindset in my team. Maybe my ideas weren’t perfect at that times but that junior sabotaged everything with I guess the mindset you described above. So my takeaways is nowadays to identify such non team players as early as possible and get them off the team asap.
- mlvljr 2y ago[dead]