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I feel like I respond to conflict in ways that are extremely unexpected by other people. I tend to act impulsively on principle without thinking about the risks
by _yb2s 2y ago
I feel like I respond to conflict in ways that are extremely unexpected by other people. I tend to act impulsively on principle without thinking about the risks- and will stand up to a bully or criminal when I should not have, even if the issue isn’t important, and they have the advantage. I once stared at person pointing a loaded gun in the eye and lectured them on their behavior, completely ignoring the gun. I don’t know if that is a symptom of ADHD or not but it seems dangerous, and I’ve been lucky so far- the other people have always backed down when I stood up like this.
- cbsmith 2y ago> I once stared at person pointing a loaded gun in the eye and lectured them on their behavior, completely ignoring the gun. Yes. I was mugged at gunpoint, and my initial reaction was to talk about the game theory of the whole situation. Somewhere, somehow, I was able to force down that thought by realizing that they wouldn't be in that situation in the first place if game theory had any space in their thinking, so all I would be doing was increasing my chances of getting killed. I almost did it anyway. Important context: I'm not brave at all; bravery did not enter the picture in that whole interaction. It was just what I instinctively felt like doing. ...and yes, impulsiveness, risk taking behaviour are standard ADHD symptoms, and ADHD often affects how you respond to conflict.
- _yb2s 2y agoAgreed- also in my case it’s not bravery. Bravery is when you’re scared but do it anyways because it’s necessary- not being scared when you should be is a bad thing and isn’t related to bravery.