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This is so hard to explain, especially to people dear to you. Like, how many times can you say I‘m sorry, I didn’t ignore your messages on purpose, I just… coul
by 9dev 2y ago
This is so hard to explain, especially to people dear to you. Like, how many times can you say I‘m sorry, I didn’t ignore your messages on purpose, I just… couldn’t before they grow tired of it? And at the same time you notice how you desperately long for the contact, but the guilt and shame for letting people wait indefinitely makes it ever harder to actually reach out. It’s a devious cycle, and constant source of ever-increasing stress.
Don’t have energy cause I fucked things up, fuck things up because I don’t have energy.
- _yb2s 2y agoI know, there is nothing I hate more than letting people down and yet end up doing so multiple times per day- and it’s demoralizing. I have so many systems, reminders, etc. that do help a lot but not enough.