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I actually am an addict (heroin, 4 years sober) and besides my day job as a developer I'm also on the board of a non profit that is about helping addicts and th
by bpatrianakos 14y ago
I actually am an addict (heroin, 4 years sober) and besides my day job as a developer I'm also on the board of a non profit that is about helping addicts and their families (you may have seen me on CNN a few weeks ago talking about it in fact). So I have personal experience with this and I also have access to some really smart people doing research on this exact thing. I can tell you that this article is true but dangerous.
I've been arguing for years that the same traits that make people like me addicts are the same ones that can help us achieve more than what "normal" people can. It's a blessing and curse. More often it's a curse. Before I get into what's wrong with this story, I'll say what's right. Addicts tend to be impatient, impulsive, risk takers who often feel more vividly than others. We're often perfectionists and harder on ourselves than anyone else would be. We can also be incredibly insecure and many of us self medicate. We internalize a lot of negative feelings about ourselves and choose a path of self destruction or a pursuit of perfectionism in ourselves. We can take our impatience and work harder, faster to achieve what we believe (many would argue mistakenly) should be accomplished right now. Right now doesn't have to literally mean that but it does mean sooner than what anyone else would expect from themselves. Failure to achieve this makes us continue using. The frustration makes us give up and instead just use drugs to feel the satisfaction we would have felt from any accomplishment. Our perfectionism lets us pay great attention to detail. Our desire for a dopamine rush can allow us to take on great challenges and see them through to the end. And our tendency to be risk takers let's us take on goals with very uncertain outcomes. In fact, I'd argue that an addict mind is the perfect kind of mind for a startup founder. It's the kind of mind prone to taking big risks, working fast, and craves the rush of satisfaction, the sooner the better.
But addicts don't start out that way. Most underachieve. That's because we live in a society that isn't set up in a way that helps us foster our "gifts". Addicts need to learn how to channel these impulses for their own good and that's tough because humans are wired to take the path of least resistance and in the case of addicts, that path is of escapism.
The article is wrong when it suggests that maybe we should allow addicts access to various substances instead of stigmatizing them. This line of thinking only takes into account the physical dependency aspect of addiction. Addiction is just as much about physical dependency as it is a way of thinking. What do you do about gambling addicts or sex addicts then? Let them gamble wi monopoly money and have sex still? Allowing an addict to continue using will not help them. It may prevent the spread of disease and allow them to function in society but it doesn't allow them to live up to their potential.
Abstinence is the best treatment. Addicts should not be stigmatized. It is a real disease. We should make every effort to get them help, and help them stay clean. What we're missing now are programs that take an addict's natural tendencies and channel them in such a way that it benefits them. That's a huge challenge. After four years clean I still struggle and have my moments where I feel like going out to the west side of Chicago and scoring. These times usually coincide with me trying to cope with something or accomplish a challenging task. The sad thing is that I don't think most addicts can get the kind of help I'm proposing even if it were widely available because you really can't spot an addict until they begin using and are already on their way to destruction. It seems that only after they've been to that low point that they can harness those "bad" tendencies for good. I'm really glad this article was written. This is the first time I've seen this idea put forward and it really makes me feel vindicated. The danger in this idea however is the part that talks about simply allowing addicts access to their drug of choice so they can function. Also, just putting forth the idea that addicts are neurodiverse runs the risk of giving addicts an excuse for their behavior and an excuse to continue with it. No matter what, the consequences of ones drug use and their behavior while using is not acceptable under any circumstances. Addicts do need our empathy and help but at the same time it's important to make sure they know that what they're doing is not acceptable and needs to stop.
(By the way, you'll probably see me as a new account - I've actually been around here as user billpatrianakos for over a year. My other account got hell banned last week for some reason and I was so pissed I almost didn't come back but I saw this post and just had to comment on it)
- light3 14y agoYou propose the article is wrong in that abstinence should be the best treatment, further you propose that 'What we're missing now are programs that take an addict's natural tendencies and channel them in such a way that it benefits them.' Which seems to be the million dollar question, since everybody has different personalities and beliefs, is there a common strategy to apply here?
- bpatrianakos 14y agoI don't know. That's probably best answered by people much smarter than me. It's kind of a catch-22 situation because before an addiction is obvious those personality traits are hard to identify and even if they are identified do they mean the person is likely to become an addict if exposed to a substance? If you catch these personality traits in a non-addict it's easy to assume they'll learn to apply them on their own and there's no reason to believe an otherwise healthy person won't learn good coping skills. But then if that person does become an addict you have to treat the disease and on top of that help them funnel those tendencies for good. It's an uphill battle once full on addiction takes hold. Sadly, most addicts do not recover and are just lost to us. It's sad because a lot of them have incredible, above average potential. While I do think we need to take treatment a step further like I mentioned before, I actually feel more strongly about prevention. It's much easier to keep a person off drugs to begin with than it is to stop them once they've started. Both have pretty awful success rates but the former still has a better success rate than the latter long term.
- INTPenis 14y agoI think you're seeing a reflection of yourself in other addicts. A drug is a drug, it will ensnare anyone regardless of intelligence or inner drive. You sound intelligent and driven but not all addicts are. I think you know this. Either way, I identified a lot with your post because of my past. My co-workers must wonder how I deal with stress so well...
- SoftwareMaven 14y agoAbstinence is probably the best treatment. But, as you mention in a reply, there are many addicts who become lost to us. Those are the people that I think a more intelligent drug policy would help. They can start with re-entering society and, if they find abstinence is the right destination, they can go there. I don't think unfettered access to the drugs is the right thing. Just like any medication, it should be monitored by a doctor (but one trained to work with addicts, not one trained by current DEA tactics). But destroying people's lives because "drugs is bad" is certainly the wrong tactic (not saying you are arguing that). Portugal has shown some great improvements since leaving that mindset behind[1]. 1. http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1893946,00.html http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1893946,00.ht...