The fact that offense is taken doesn’t mean anyone is making a moral judgement of the speaker. Something unintentionally offensive is still offensive. If you w

The fact that offense is taken doesn’t mean anyone is making a moral judgement of the speaker. Something unintentionally offensive is still offensive. If you want to maintain the moral high ground when you criticise people for policing others, don’t instruct people which emotions are valid or invalid for them to feel in response to your actions.