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Sounds like you need to first make your life less chaotic. This could mean making some hard choices.

• oldandboring 2y ago
  This is usually possible to some degree but the life circumstances creating the chaos may not be things they can realistically get rid of.
  • dirtybirdnj 2y ago
    Nail on the head. Lost wife / family (cat) / house over the summer. Mom in and out of hospital starting in November. I'm a cat locked in the dryer and there are no door handles on the inside.
    • fn-mote 2y ago
      My deepest sympathies. Find a way to spend some time and money on therapy if you can. It will help stop the problem making itself worse.
    • oldandboring 2y ago
      I kinda figured. Sorry bro. No easy answers, unfortunately.