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I have a right to be rude and I'm gonna use it The rude person often is the one policing others by taking a person's figure of speech and applying a moral judg
by tremon 2y ago
I have a right to be rude and I'm gonna use it
The rude person often is the one policing others by taking a person's figure of speech and applying a moral judgement completely outside of the speaker's intended context. Offense is taken, not given.
- reshlo 2y agoThe fact that offense is taken doesn’t mean anyone is making a moral judgement of the speaker. Something unintentionally offensive is still offensive. If you want to maintain the moral high ground when you criticise people for policing others, don’t instruct people which emotions are valid or invalid for them to feel in response to your actions.