Subject of the conversation not its participants. In a public conversation preferences of the subject i.e. who being talked about when discussing about them pu

Subject of the conversation not its participants. In a public conversation preferences of the subject i.e. who being talked about when discussing about them publicly matters more than the participants i.e who is doing the talking Period , done . if you disagree then you and I fundamentally different views on what is a civilized society and I hope my neighbors have my world view than yours.