IME this is the right of it- it is harder to develop the muscle to take the initiative to be social. It's hard to consider but socializing is an active investme

IME this is the right of it- it is harder to develop the muscle to take the initiative to be social. It's hard to consider but socializing is an active investment, not a passive one to be consumed easily like social media feeds. It's very easy to say "I signed up for a thing, but I'll flake instead because I just don't feel like it".