>I can’t believe that a young single straight man wouldn’t be all over that event I'm not young (neither I'm old - a bit over 30) anymore, but I would never go

>I can’t believe that a young single straight man wouldn’t be all over that event I'm not young (neither I'm old - a bit over 30) anymore, but I would never go to such event when I was single. Dating events feel like stress, a lot of expectations to meet, and ultimately there's nothing I have in common with those people (or so I think). I always preferred dating in my social, work and hobby circles. I don't know if that's common, but anecdotally my friends feel and do the same.