i think you need to chill and just let them live their old life. you're trying to quantify something that's qualitative on them. checking on them and hanging o

i think you need to chill and just let them live their old life. you're trying to quantify something that's qualitative on them. checking on them and hanging out with them in person when you got the time is already enough. let them fade on their own pace, stop trying to control it.