I didn't downvote you, but only because I can't downvote. This comment is so out of touch with human family norms and morals that I do think it detracts from t

I didn't downvote you, but only because I can't downvote. This comment is so out of touch with human family norms and morals that I do think it detracts from the overall discussion. Totally fine to say "uh guys, it's the kid's dad, not exactly an unbiased party", but to suggest that a father using his resources to raise his son is an indication of a lack of integrity shows that you have a poor or distorted grasp on how the human world works (and should work).