Pairing is the main issue to me, and the one I see most often. For a lot of neurodiverse developers it is not an option. I would leave any workplace that tries

Pairing is the main issue to me, and the one I see most often. For a lot of neurodiverse developers it is not an option. I would leave any workplace that tries to force pairing, because I value my mental health enough to not force myself to endure something I know the mental cost of. And this effect on the diversity of your team is one I see a lot of XP advocates fail to address. I don't mind a team adopting it for those who want to do it. I do mind a workplace that is actively hostile to people for whom it doesn't work.