It seems like you grew into your loneliness and that you also did it consciously OP found himself alone rather fast and without truly realizing it was happenin

It seems like you grew into your loneliness and that you also did it consciously OP found himself alone rather fast and without truly realizing it was happening He’ll probably get over it at some point, will find a group to belong to and redefine his identity along the way Neither situation is intrinsically better or worse, just different and subjective to each one of you