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Some parts of the country you can "become American". My wife is a naturalized citizen from a former colony nation, and some places we travel people make it cle
by RajT88 2y ago
Some parts of the country you can "become American". My wife is a naturalized citizen from a former colony nation, and some places we travel people make it clear that they feel she is not a "real American" despite almost no accent and having lived here twice as long as where she was born.
- rayiner 2y agoIronically, DC makes me feel that way the most, where I routinely have to suffer the indignity explaining to people in professional contexts about my “diverse background” while they “ohh” and “ahh.”
- RajT88 2y agoI've heard that complaint from second gen immigrants. First gen don't seem to mind quite as much. (Just my observation - my wife also holds this view) Performative interest in diversity is condescending and othering. Well, performative interest period can be condescending and othering, regardless of the topic.
- rayiner 2y agoI’m first gen so I actually think of myself as less American than say my wife, whose ancestors came over before the revolutionary war. So I’m not offended that someone might view me that way. I just don’t see the point of making me discuss that in a professional setting. It’s like “dance for us, foreigner!”