..not sure I want to ask my kids for help... I shiver at the thought. Culturally, as a Filipino kid, everyone knows that kids are indebted to the parents for

..not sure I want to ask my kids for help... I shiver at the thought. Culturally, as a Filipino kid, everyone knows that kids are indebted to the parents for them being born. Wtf. I do help my parents because I love them, they dont ask but they don't need to. But I will not ask help from my kids, they dont owe me anything. We live in the UK now, but my wife and I will just have to retire to the Philippines where everything is a whole lot cheaper.