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It never ceases to amaze me how different American views on work and parenting are from the rest of the world. Even Canada, barely a line in the sand away, has
by run4yourlives 14y ago
It never ceases to amaze me how different American views on work and parenting are from the rest of the world. Even Canada, barely a line in the sand away, has a completely different cultural attitude on this topic than the US.
In most of the world, parenting is viewed as an important, demanding job. Motherhood - given the physical and mental demands not shared by the father - even more so. In the US it seems to be an inconvenience to everyone involved.
From a general point of view, I think it's Ms. Mayer's right (along with any other parent) to determine the lifestyle they think is most appropriate for themselves and their family.
Personally though, I think this is a horrible life choice that shouldn't be culturally supported. A child is not an acquisition that will accompany your life; rather a child is a commitment to you changing into a new life. It would be the same as deciding to move to a farm in Brazil. The expectation that you can move to a farm in Brazil and still be an effective farmer as well as a CEO (or whatever your current position is) would be laughed at as being hopelessly naive. It would also be taken as a given that your farm would probably suffer, unless you pretty much outsourced its operations completely.
Alas, that's probably what will happen in the case of junior Mayer - assuming hubby continues to work as well, which admittedly is a large assumption. As a society, we should discourage parenting at arms length, in the same way that we should discourage those not committed to child rearing from having kids in the first place.
It's a shame that one has to bring another human into this world that will immediately be disconnected from their parents in a way that others aren't. I think it puts us all at a tremendous disadvantage not to create this strong bonds.