> So what is important then? Nothing. Importance and meaning are human constructs. What is important/meaningful to each of us is simply what _feels_ important/

> So what is important then? Nothing. Importance and meaning are human constructs. What is important/meaningful to each of us is simply what _feels_ important/meaningful to us. There's no extrinsic measure of importance/meaning, although others will continually try to tell you there is. It's true though that for many (most?) people relationships feel meaningful, so it's a good bet to do things that build those if you're not sure.