> "who died and appointed you the arbiter of stupid" I think that's the key. We all are entitled to an opinion, but none of us is entitled to spit that opinio

> "who died and appointed you the arbiter of stupid" I think that's the key. We all are entitled to an opinion, but none of us is entitled to spit that opinion in the face of anyone else. > "It's your attitude towards other people on the whole. You want to criticize because of the way it makes you feel" > "Just biting your tongue's not going to solve this [negative] underlying view [of other people]." Strongly agree. Most peoples' criticism (mine especially included) isn't harsh because they use a bad method, it's harsh because they're mean, selfish people.