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This is great advice if you replace "friends" with "family"

• bdangubic 2y ago
  hmmm I don’t think I want to be THAT close to my family… don’t want any pop-ins :)
  • 2OEH8eoCRo0 2y ago
    I enjoy pop-ins. Someday nobody will pop-in because they'll all be dead.
    • bdangubic 2y ago
      not sure why this is being downvoted… the fact that I’ll be eternally sad when older members of my family are no longer roaming the Earth has no bearing on whether or not I enjoy the pop-ins. I think perfect distance from your family is one which you can do a day trip (come for lunch, leave in the afternoon) but far enough you’d call to make sure we are not hiking/biking/snorkeling/…
• doubled112 2y ago
  Not always With family, the further I get, the happier I am. They are what they are, and I can’t say I’m that interested in it. I’ve replaced that with friends I can actually count on.
  • Loughla 2y ago
    Found family is just as valid as family. For those of us from toxic homes, found family is more important. The LGBTQ community was decades ahead of us on this.