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> analyze every thing I could be doing wrong to annoy or offend people Is this a "you" problem or a "they" problem?

• fairity 2y ago
  Why would it matter? OP is experiencing an undesirable outcome, and assigning blame for the problem seems besides the point when the main goal is to change the outcome.
  • jimkleiber 2y ago
    If one can't figure out the causes of certain outcomes, how does one change the outcomes?
  • blueflow 2y ago
    Because you can reverse the situation and criticize them for being offended by everything and difficult for you to work with.
    • gosub100 2y ago
      you can, only if you have the critical amount of self confidence, appetite for conflict, lack the fear of losing them, and/or have another group of people who you can substitute after their loss. Thats a big ask for all but the most socially endowed of us.