> I simply cannot comprehend how something as enjoyable as spending time with people you like can be so mentally taxing? Similarly, I simply cannot comprehend

> I simply cannot comprehend how something as enjoyable as spending time with people you like can be so mentally taxing? Similarly, I simply cannot comprehend how something as tedious as partying with dozens of people you hardly even know can not be so mentally taxing. But that's fine. We don't need to comprehend how it works in others. We just need to accept that it does indeed work in different ways for different people, and treat them accordingly, as we ourselves wish to be treated by those who can't comprehend how it works for us.