The biggest issue I have in making & keeping friends is that I'm constantly haunted by my backlog and the fact that I'm time-poor due to having a wife, three ch

The biggest issue I have in making & keeping friends is that I'm constantly haunted by my backlog and the fact that I'm time-poor due to having a wife, three children, and a home to maintain. Do I take three hours today to talk to some strangers or do I spend that time fixing my staircase or remediating the mold issue in my upstairs bathroom or do I finally build that STEM kit my 10 year old has been asking me to do with him for the past few weeks?