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I am sorry for you if you experienced this first hand, or fear you might end up experiencing this. I wish you all the best and happy holidays.
by ablation 2y ago
I am sorry for you if you experienced this first hand, or fear you might end up experiencing this. I wish you all the best and happy holidays.
- toomuchtodo 2y agoOn the contrary, I’ve been with my partner for over 20 years and am happy enough. But, I don’t let my emotions get in the way of logic and the rational when advising others. I recognize luck for what it is, and you should to. We won the lottery, as I said; most do not. I’m just trying to help people who haven’t made the one way door choice yet potentially suffer less. Be well, take care. Edit: I never felt this subthread was anything other than the polite exchange of data and thoughts, and I hope you felt the same way too.
- ablation 2y agoI appreciate the data and considered response. And yes, I do recognize luck but also that good things take work, too. And your posts have made me recogize it all the more - it’s good to have a moment to realize that not everyone experiences what you do. Also I appreciate HN for enabling this to be a thoughtful exchange. So all the best - and I do mean that!