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I have a couple of wealthier friends and one that is getting wealthier by the day. The way I solved this problem between us is that I refuse to accept "mercy"
by JanezStupar 14y ago
I have a couple of wealthier friends and one that is getting wealthier by the day.
The way I solved this problem between us is that I refuse to accept "mercy" gifts. I will accept an earnest gift when It is presented out of kindness. Also I demand that our financials be thoroughly transparent with me covering my fair share.
It works exceptionally well, allowing for our friendship to develop at its own and sincere pace. Besides, being around him and having such a friend/mentor is a gift that keeps on giving, more than a paid this or that ever could.
- tsotha 14y agoThey're lucky to have you as a friend. But the friendship started before they became wealthy, right? That way they'll never have to wonder if you're working some kind of long angle.
- JanezStupar 14y agoNo, not really. Regarding the long angle, of course I am working the long angle. As I said, these people help me move along, just not in a way where I would be a mere client. If I am not interested in having fish caught for me - that doesn't mean I am not interested in learning everything I can about fishing.