Ok, where do you nerds hang out and why am I not there?? I'm loving this discussion, y'all seem to be a rather rare breed of dev though. Where is the community

Ok, where do you nerds hang out and why am I not there?? I'm loving this discussion, y'all seem to be a rather rare breed of dev though. Where is the community for whatever this sort of dev is called? i.e., Clojure has the Clojurians Slack, the Clojurians Zulip, we have an annual Clojure conference and a few spin-offs. Where do you guys hang out?? This stuff is really awesome and I would love to dig in more!