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That's a nice thing to have. Although since marriage and especially child birth I usually need to fight for loneliness instead. Maybe I'll do it when I'm old, y
by markus_zhang 2y ago
That's a nice thing to have. Although since marriage and especially child birth I usually need to fight for loneliness instead. Maybe I'll do it when I'm old, you know, alone.
- em-bee 2y agoyou want alone time but also time away from family, which can be filled by meeting others. i know it's not easy, but i would try at least once a month. also arrange the same for your partner. you want friends that allow you to share and open up on problems that you face. as soon as you have your first fight you'll want some else to talk to. a psychologist also told me that putting all your companionship needs on your partner can be burdensome. for example if i like to play board games and my wife doesn't then i better keep meeting others to play instead of giving up playing
- endoblast 2y agoI think you've hit on the solution for most people going forward: prioritise getting married and starting a family while you're young. Don't leave it to chance or assume it's impossible. It's not the burden that our culture is making it out to be whereas loneliness is a large and growing problem.