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I've found it far easier than ever to get dates, but more difficult to make friends People have ridiculously high standards for friendships than dates. This s
by vijayr 14y ago
I've found it far easier than ever to get dates, but more difficult to make friends
People have ridiculously high standards for friendships than dates. This sounds weird, even writing it, but I've found it to be true again and again. Many many people would have no problems dating absolute jerks, but wouldn't hang out for 15 minutes with a genuinely nice person (of the same gender). May be people are just desperate to hang out with people of opposite gender? I dunno.
There's probably an opportunity for a little business there,
I doubt that. How could you do this as a business? Arrange volunteer activities/"friend dates"/hang-outs with the primary aim of making friends? Make a website like lookingforfriends.com (just made up the name)? Most people just can't be bothered to spend 5 minutes getting to know another person, unless there is something in it for them (that is why it is easier to get dates, than friends). It just boils down to, people are just plain selfish, at least most of them.
- ta12121 14y agoMay be people are just desperate to <strike>hang out</strike> <i>have sex</i> with with people of opposite gender